The Debt of gifting is gratitude, and so we see both gifting and gratitude are aspects of grace which is love in action. Hence with graciousness there is no actual loss or debt at all, only reciprocating love.
Science is the be all and end all of half of The Cosmic Code of Wisdom and Grace.
Religion is a speck of dust in the galaxy of love and grace.
The power of graciousness is its transformational effect on power and control.