Little sermonette, if you will allow me.
Graciousness disarms all but the most corrupt or crazed individuals, being love expressed it is the highest and most effective ethic one can aspire to, and practiced long enough becomes authentic, powerful and personally protective as well so it is actually the most positive, rational and intelligent path forward.
And this is my wish for you: that you be gracious toward each other. Graciousness edifies and frees. Let graciousness be your guide.