….consciousness and/or the intention/vector toward self awareness is the utterly integrated background of the quantum universe and provides just enough (currently unmeasurable) friction/gravity/cohesiveness to both create gravity and also to cause the wavelength character of the wavelength-particle duality…to become particles and then to go back to becoming a wavelength?  This is reflected in the actions of our self awareness in the temporal universe as it reaches out (or in) to experience a reality making it real, and then withdraws from that reality and on to another, making the former reality (personally and in that moment) no longer real/existent.

Consciousness/self awareness, the more you experience it, the more you realize how real it actually is.