…that obsessive contention makes them part of the problem, and that integration of opposing truths and simultaneous deletion of opposing untruths is the solution. Integration is Wisdom. Obsessive contention is merely semi-conscious orthodoxy in disguise. Well considered resistance to flaw and untruth is not obsessive, and is understandable on both sides, but orthodoxies always have untruths, blindness and unconsciousness in them. Wisdom-Integration is of only truths, only workabilities and of only the highest ethical considerations.  When in doubt integrate!