Yes, arguing from rigid dualistic standpoints is frustrating and the way to go nowhere fast. Thats why I recommend the trinitarian mindset of finding the key outnesses in both sides of the duality and then finding the best way(s) to integrate the opposite viewpoints of the duality into a thirdness greater oneness. Consult Hegel’s thesis, antithesis and synthesis, chemical synthesis and the superlative mental stance and intellectual discipline of wisdom which is the integration of opposites and whose signature has always been “the third resolving way.”