Such a good post Nate. What I think you’re saying is what I also consider the most underlying problem which is the mindset of Duality Only instead of an Integrative Thirdness Greater Oneness of Opposites IOW the Trinitarian mindset of Wisdom.
Wisdom has always been associated with “the third resolving way” and every paradigm change has always been an integrative resolution of opposites that increases knowledge and survival. What we need to ask ourselves is: What is the concept (and its various applicable aspects) behind both Wisdom and paradigm change?